Virgin's Handbook on Virtual Relationships

(A Product of Virtual Handhold, LLC)

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The goal of this book:

by Pamala Clift

(The Roadside Philosopher)

Published Date April /May 2012

Re-edited by an external editor May 2013

Love online is a taboo. Whether in Second Life, IMVU, WOW, gaming, email, cell phone texting, blogs etc. It is engaged in, enjoyed & mourned by millions in silence.

So this book is to de-stigmatize the virtual communication that has now become a part of our modern technological society. Locating the value and usefulness of our virtual connections, along with the proper level of skepticism which will allow this medium to function for all that

seek to connect.

I so hope this helps! Hugs..Pam


I wish to thank all the supporters. From the $1 Linden donations to the $500 US dollar contributions, each was an honor to receive. I take this charge very seriously, that so many have contributed to this work with their views, experiences, money and tears.

People sharing what has worked and what has not.

It has given me hope that we indeed, with work, can accept people's differences and make a better Real LIfe with our new virtual handhold!

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Where to buy the book?

In all Amazon countries plus!

Formatted at 5.25" x 8" size and comes out to be 242 pages.


Amazon paperback in the US - (sometimes goes on sale for $10.76 instead of $14.95)

Right now Barnes & Noble has it on sale for $13.47

United Kingdom in Paperback

Germany Paperback

France Paperback

Spain Paperback

Italy Paperback

Japan Paperback

Kindleversions in English

The USA Kindle Store- $4.99

For Amazon United Kingdom

For Amazon Germany

For Amazon France

For Amazon Spain

For Amazon Italy

Any & All other Countries International Sales go through My Store with Publisher-

With computer mediated communications being involved in at least 70% of today's newly formed interpersonal relationships, how do we sift the perceptions presented into something that is usable. How can you separate the components that are valid from those that are pure fiction?

June 2014- Sorry have been distracted with sustaining life, moving and starting anew. The book is still selling, slow, but still out there. I have renewed my Kindle library availability for those who have Amazon Prime... Looking into another type of promotion. Hugs.

Oct 2013 - Last month had a two day FREE kindle book promotional, and just under 200 books went out. I got only one review on Amazon out of it, but it was positive. I need help getting this information out to teachers & students and all those that are trying to figure out why digital has such a massive impact on our psyche.

Aug 2013- The updated more-grammatically correct version is up and should now be available through all venues.

The audible version has been recorded, but still not optimized and uploaded to Audible.

Status: May 25, 2013 The professional editing has been done for those Grammar Nazi's (smile) and I am transferring the changes to the book's template. Hope to get this completed and uploaded again so the paperback book will be available soon....I hope.

STATUS 10/17/2012: Had the 2 day promotional FREE book sale on Kindle where 207 books went out. I have recorded and edited (1st level) of Chpts. 1,2,3,7,8 so almost 1/2 through with the Audible version. However, they have never gotten back to me about the file I sent them to see if it was acceptable.

9/3/12 Created promotional videos, set up a gig with Chapters 7 & 8. Still recording and editing the audible version.

Wish to get IBOOK done in a more comic book form with audio files, so have upgraded my operating system on my mac laptop and figuring out the software for IAuthor.

Now I have to fill in all the author pages and move on to the next venue.

The Kickstarter Project has Completed and raised the $2022 needed for publishing.

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Update.. 11/5/2011

I have recorded the cover text, preface, & Author into sound cloud if you would like to listen.

Click below...

 Virgins Handbook on Virtual Relationships, Cover, Preface & Author by pamala-clift